Count your blessings

There is an unwritten principle in management study pertaining to decision-making. While selecting an alternative it is seldom a case of selection of the best. Mostly it is rejection of the worst. By keeping on rejecting the worst one can tend to move towards the best situation as much as possible and practicable. No harm if one cannot reach the best possible alternative. It may not be possible at all.

The same principle applies to various situations of our life. We must never feel annoyed if we are unable to reach the point which can be considered the best and the ideal. As much we can move towards that ideal, that much should be satisfying for us. Within such a compromise lies the essence of peace and happiness. To put it in other words, we must keep satisfied with what life has given us. However our endeavour should always be to attain the best possible. Our attainment, in most cases, may not be 'the best'.

We must always try to surpass our own achievements and keep on moving towards further prosperity. We must also try to honour our achievements. We must always try to count our blessings.

In a relationship also one must not make material pursuits its first and foremost basis. What one is supposed to gain out of a relationship is highly immaterial and abstract, which can only be felt by the heart. Failing to comprehend that feeling can disturb and destroy a relationship. Extreme caution needs to be exercised in all our dealings within a relationship. In a relationship one can only win by 'giving'. If one is not ready to give himself or herself, he is not worthy enough to enter into a relationship. If one can 'give', the 'takes' will pour in naturally.
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A bit of humour after some serious talk

There is a man in our neighbourhood who has arrived recently. Initially he tried to be very friendly with us and we found nothing wrong in it. But now I have made it a point not to entertain him any more. The reason is very annoying as well as ridiculous. During a conversation, while standing face to face, the man keeps advancing inch by inch towards the person he is talking to. God knows why. But really it is a very unacceptable and unpardonable habit. Initially, for two or three days, I kept on going back slowly to maintain the basic minimum distance between us. The more I retreat, the more he advances, without in any way interrupting the conversation. He literally breathes down upon the other person's face. Now the moment I see him, I just change my route and take a roundabout way to avoid him. How his family members tackle this problem I would really like to know. Such peculiar habits some people possess.
What if the other person is a woman?

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